Many men have a common problem – they just can’t seem to be confident around women. The truth is that it may be because you are shy, because you don’t know what to do or what to say, you may be afraid of saying the wrong things, or you may not be comfortable with your own appearance and personality. However, one thing is for sure – women love confident men and they will only give you a chance if you look this way.
Even though it’s easier to say than do, you need to become confident and, more importantly, know how to show your confidence without seeming arrogant.
Overall, when you want to be more confident around women, you need to think about 3 different aspects: attitude, knowledge, and experience. If you know how to start a conversation with women, if you have the right attitude, you then just need the experience to become even better each time you approach a new woman.
In order to help you increase your self-confidence, here are some tips that will help you overcome your approach anxiety and develop good conversation skills with a woman:
#1: Start Small:
When you are trying to grow your self-confidence, it’s probably not a good idea to approach the hottest woman around. Instead, try to see another woman who may interest you and practice your conversation skills. While your ultimate goal is to approach the hottest woman, you’ll be gaining experience and seeing what works best and worst. This will also help you overcome any approach or social anxiety you may suffer from.
#2: One Step at a Time:
One of the difficulties many men have when they try to approach a woman is to how to start a conversation. The truth is that simply saying “hi” is a daunting mission for many men. This is why you need to develop a good confidence in yourself before you even start. The way you dress, the way you walk, and the way you behave have a lot to say about you. So, when you are about to go out, make sure that you dress well and that you have a good posture. A self confident man will look straight in the eyes to whoever he is talking, will walk straight, and with a smile on his face.
The truth is that just by dressing well and showing a good self-confident posture, it will be easier for you to get a positive feedback from the woman you are approaching. Then, you just need to start a conversation with her.
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#3: Pick the Right Places for Approaching a Woman:
The truth is that when you are confident about women, you won’t have any problems approaching one that you like, no matter where you are. However, since you’re developing and trying to increase your confidence around women, it’s better to be picky about the place where you are going.
In case you are thinking about going to a venue where there are many beautiful women but you just don’t feel comfortable there, the reality is that you’ll probably end up the night feeling miserable because you weren’t able to approach anyone. After all, it takes a lot more effort and energy to overcome the approach anxiety. So, make sure that you go to a venue where you feel comfortable and where you can be yourself.